Blame - The Ultimate Disabler

‎mindsetmonday‬ When you think about what happened to you -- as a child, in a relationship or marriage, at work, or in your family -- what do you think about? Are you blaming someone? Did you know that when you blame someone you are actually hurting yourself - it is the ultimate disabler. If you are blaming it makes you get stuck and feel sick. 
No matter what was done to you, you have a choice of how you feel and what you think about it. We cannot control other people's behaviors, but we can control how we respond to them or think about them. Forgiveness never excuses behavior. Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart
So, consider shifting your thought patterns. When you take some ownership (for instance, even just acknowledging your emotions you are feeling about the situation/issue/memory) that can be empowering and will help you to let it go. Consider pairing this with the tapping strategy I have posted videos and release the strong feelings tied to your heart.
‪#‎youhaveachoice‬ ‪#‎ownyouremotions‬ ‪#‎changeyourmindsets‬‪#‎changeyourthoughts‬ ‪#‎changeyourreality‬

Functional Fitness

Functional Fitness involves training the body for daily life activities. These exercises equip your body to handle real-life situations. Specifically, the focus is on increasing balance/stability, strength, and decreasing the risk of injury. 
Yesterday, I boarded a plane to leave Belize. I had to carry my heavy carry-on bag up some pretty steep stairs. I am delighted to say it was no trouble at all for me!! As I carried it, I thought of two things: 1) Thank God for BodyPump - that class, in particular, has really strengthened all muscles in my body; 2) I never could have done this two years ago -- in fact, I would have had to have someone else carry the bag and then use both of my hands to pull myself up those steep stairs. Yea for small victories!!
What are you doing in your current workouts to make you better able to handle life? Have you found that you can now do something functionally you could not do before? (For instance, lifting your child, carrying heavy groceries, shoveling snow, etc.)
Functional Fitness is all about strengthening your core and balance. Is your current workout addressing these areas? Look at the link below for simple exercises to increase your functional fitness level. ‪#‎takesafewminutes‬‪#‎youareworthit‬ ‪#‎lookathowstrongwearenow‬‪#‎abletohelpothersratherthanneedotherstohelpus‬ ‪#‎changeyourreality‬
http://www.sheknows.com/health-and-wellness/articles/806681/top-functional-exercises-for-fullbody-fitness

Give Yourself Grace

During my time in Belize, it was very hot. I chose not to exercise all week long. As a result, coming back into my normal fitness schedule this week has been challenging. It is amazing to see what is lost with one week off. I could allow this to affect me -- maybe making me go lighter; I could even buy into old gobbledegook and say maybe "I am not strong enough" or whatever; I could condemn myself and say I was "so bad for not exercising." 
But, that's not who I am or who I have become. I am powerful and strong. I choose not to believe in an "all or nothing" type of mindset. I choose to give myself grace. I choose to go full throttle on my workouts and leap back into it all.
I think people use an "all or nothing" mindset all the time when it comes to exercise. Taking off a day for your workouts doesn't have to ruin your whole week. Taking off a week doesn't need to affect how you do the rest of the month. Give yourself grace. Life happens. Kids need things. Spouses can be demanding.
Why not to choose to ‪#‎changeyourthinking‬ by giving yourself grace and not giving up? Can you hold any critical thought captive -- that is brain trash - let it go!
Could you try writing out your fitness schedule for the week then analyze what worked, what didn't? Do you need to look at smaller bursts of exercise? Think of the those 10 minute high intensity training apps we have discussed before.
Remember friends, you need to a cheerleader for yourself! Give yourself compliments about your progress. (Share them on here and we will encourage you, too).
No matter what - you are worth it!! You are amazing! You are making progress! ‪#‎changeyourreality‬
#changeyourthinking ‪#‎ditchthefixedmindsets‬ ‪#‎giveyourselfgrace‬

Accountability and Your Fitness

How have you been doing in following through with the workouts you intend to do? Life is notorious for getting in the way of our ideal exercise schedule. 
I have found that there are always a bunch of reasons to skip my workout(s) for the day. What is helping me is to commit to others (specifically instructors and friends who normally attend) the day before via text.  
Why not post your exercise plans for the day or week here or message it privately to me if you feel self conscious. By making a commitment to someone else you will follow through with your plans! It works!

It is okay to take a break or day off, but I see people all the time who just give up or stop. You are better than that.
Think about how exercising and really sweating makes you feel. Not only does it give you energy, but doesn't it give you personal power, too?
We really do need each other.
No matter if you are a home, outdoor, gym, or fitness class exerciser committing to at least one person about your workouts will help you to follow through. Find someone who will not condemn. In the past, I have had some toxic friends/boyfriends who say negative body stuff or overanalyzed what I was eating. That isn't helpful. You need someone who is with you fully now and is on your side completely. Can you commit this week to letting at least one person know what you are doing for exercise? Remember, friends, it does not matter where you are at in your fitness journey. I would be absolutely proud of you if you wrote me and said you were going to try to walk 10 minutes a day. This is about starting where you are at now and committing to yourself to exercise.
I really do feel that telling someone (or writing it on our forum) will help you to follow through. Can you commit to your schedule for the week? You are so worth it!
‪#‎accountabilitypartners‬ ‪#‎supportingeachother‬ ‪#‎changeyourreality‬

Are you a Victim of your Heredity?

‪#‎mindsetsunday‬
Are you in agreement with issues/problems/illnesses/mindsets from your parents or other generations in your family? 

Have you recently said (or thought) "_______ runs in my family"? Are you a victim of your heredity? I know I used to identify the migraines as part of my heritage - which basically meant there was no way to escape it. It was a hopeless stance. Thankfully, I changed the way I thought and my health completely shifted!

A friend just shared with me a remarkable article featuring Bruce Lipton's research on DNA and thought patterns. Bruce states that it is "A person’s perception, not genetic programming [that] spurs all action in the body: 'It’s actually our beliefs that select our genes, that select our behavior...Perception of the environment is not necessarily the reality of the environment. In every one of your cells, you have genes whose function it is to rewrite and adapt genes as necessary...Perception rewrites genes,” Lipton explained.

Whether you agree with Bruce's ideas or not, it is important to consider them. Here is the deal, friends. We know how powerful it is when we choose to change the way we think! We have seen it in this forum. 

What if you were to no longer be in agreement with the generational issues of your family? What if you stopped saying, "____ runs in my family and that is why I struggle with it"? How are these generational issues affecting your fitness routines? Your families? Your relationships? Your health? Your happiness?

My feeling is this, your words have power! Agreement has power! Think of shifting that power and agreement by shifting your words. Change your mindset about your heritage.

‪#‎changeyourmindsets‬ ‪#‎changeyourthoughts‬ ‪#‎youareworthit‬‪#‎youcandomorethanyoueverthoughtyoucould‬ ‪#‎changeyourreality‬

Bruce Lipton – How Our Thoughts Control Our DNA

by Tara MacIsaac, The common idea that DNA determines so much of who we are—not only our eye or hair color, for example, but also our addictions, disorders, or susceptibility to cancer—is a misconc…

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What is Your Identity Based In?

‪#‎mindsetmonday‬ What is your identity based in? Just take a moment and think when you meet a new person what is the first piece you use to identify yourself?  
Growing up the focus for me was on accomplishments, degrees earned, and my profession. So my go to was, "I'm Katherine, I'm an elementary school counselor." 
Living in Chicago was fascinating because the main question people would ask after finding out your name is, "What is your nationality?" So, in Chicago, people defined themselves through their nationality. It also would explain which neighborhood you lived in.
What is your identity rooted in? Being a mother? Your profession? A hobby?
I was thinking about this during a personal training session today. I was thinking, "I am an athlete!" My trainer worked with the University of Iowa baseball team. He trains athletes and I am an athlete. This is part of my identity I want to focus on and agree with more.
Why is it important to find where your identity is rooted? When the most important thing about me was my profession - it limited me. I am a school counselor, but I am also an encourager and motivator. I think when I only focused on accomplishments (like getting good grades, getting a master's degree, or whatever) it was limiting and gave me a spirit of perfection and drivenness. But, when I root my identity in who I am and what is remarkable about me (not focusing on the opinions of others) I can see myself clearly and celebrate what is positive about me. 
So, think for a minute. What is remarkable about you? What makes you uniquely awesome? Can you begin to think about that as part of your identity rather than just being your child's mom or your career? ‪#‎celebratewhoyouare‬ ‪#‎youareworthit‬ ‪#‎changeyourmindsets‬‪#‎changeyourthinking‬ ‪#‎changeyourreality‬

Comparison Steals Joy

I had an interesting conversation with a woman today before our class started. She said she wished that she could go to a class where everyone started at the same level as beginners. She felt self-conscious about others being more advanced than she felt she was.
Her comment made me think about how, especially as women, we often compete with each other. I have heard women often say self-deprecating comments about: their bodies, what they eat, their intelligence, etc. Society tells us there is an ideal we must all strive for in every area of our lives. However, this ideal is never met and it leads to jealousy and comparison to those we think are meeting this so-called ideal.
But, what if we were to change our thinking? What if we were to go against what the world says? What if we chose not to compare ourselves to others? If notice you are starting to compare yourself to another person, could you hold the thought captive and throw it away as brain trash? Then replace it with a positive comment about yourself.
I get that in fitness, it can be motivating to compete with others. I just encourage you to listen to your thoughts if this is the way you get motivated. Are you thinking thoughts that are positive about yourself when you compete with another person? Or do your thoughts focus on all the things you are doing wrong and what the other person does well?
I think it is time we become our own fans! I have found it helpful to compete with myself. I like to see what I could not do a month ago, but can do today. To me this shows real progress!
What will you choose to think about? ‪#‎comparisonstealsjoy‬‪#‎competeagainstyourself‬
‪#‎beyourownfan‬ ‪#‎throwawaybraintrash‬ ‪#‎changeyourthinking‬‪#‎changeyourreality‬